Write Like You Because There is No One Right Way to Write

Confession time!

I am a morning person. I love morning. I love getting up early and getting things done before other people are out of bed. I love breakfast more than any other meal in the world (exept maybe brunch) and I want to eat the second I open my eyes.

 

Most of my friends are night people (RESPECT!) but I would much rather go to bed early and deal with the world in the morning. Things get weird after midnight. What’s embarassing about this is how long it took me to actually admit. I like the idea of being a night person, and the countless articles floating around about how night owls are more creative makes my writer self chafe.

I tried for many years to make night owl work for me. I’d stay up late with my friends, write at night, and generally shun the day, but it never led to me being very good at being well…me. I became a miserable zombie just blindly poking at a keyboard and hoping for the best.

Everyone has their own quirks and their own habits for writing. You develop a system that works. Some people write in coffee shops or else not at all while other people can’t write anywhere but their office. Neither one of them is wrong, just different. Over the years, I’ve realized that fighting against your process is dumb and helps nothing. I know I write better in the morning but I constantly try to write at night because that’s what so many other people do. I might be a strong, independent woman but that allure of ‘writing the right way’ keeps drawing me back even though I know there is no one right way.

Write when you can when it’s best for you, and forget what other people are doing. Maybe some people would rather sleep until noon and write until 3am, if it works for them awesome! Maybe some people write in marathon 10,000 word binge all nighters. But don’t ever feel like someone else’s process has to be yours.

What works for you might even change over the years and that’s okay. Life happens, circumstances change and you keep rolling with it. Writing can be a chaotic, emotionally draining pursuit, don’t make it harder by trying to be someone you’re not. There is no one magical right way to write, it’s whatever way works for you.

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